Beware of the informal

You never know where you stand with the informal, they might bite you at any time without warning (usually by the hired asshole). A word of warning don't ever drop your defenses and always try to read between the lines. There are some pretty informal assholes.

the tragedy of dying in your 50s

My loved one is probably terminally ill and still in her early 50s. When I see old people I can't help thinking how sad it is she will never reach that age. She might be gone before her children are married. She might be gone before my first child is born. She might never be a grandmother. We all go some time but our time is rarely right.
She has given us all, she has made us who we are...

Parents

Who would have thought that parents arguing would have same effect now at 22 then it had back when I was 12. I can't help thinking that these people were not meant for each other, and yet by a twisted turn of fate they have come together and two walks of life have sprung from that cursed union.
What if they had never met, would they be any happier? Would they still be alive? If I could go back in time and alter their fate so that they never met, would I do it even if it meant sacrificing my brother's existence as well as my own?

You need to accept people for who they are. Don't expect to be able to change anyone. The only thing you should not tolerate is unfaithfulness.

Real love is not sweet, it's bitter sweet.
There's love and then there's principles.